Well..i think this question is kind of depend on one's personality. For some, they may be just think that as long as they know the guys' hearts have only them..They will not care the girls around those guys. For me, I CAN NOT accept that. I am the kind of person that will get jealous while my love one is around with lots of girls(friends)...especially when he treats them better than me. This will make me feel like what is my position to him that i am not even important than his other friends. For me, If he really likes me, he will TRY HIS BEST to avoid having all these girls(friends) around him..He should be able to understand my feeling... I do not mean to restrict him for having girls(friends), but i think he should know where the LIMIT is... Still, it is really important that IF HE IS ABLE TO PROVIDE THE 'SECURE' FOR ME... :)
u are right base on ur statement...coz true love alwys does the thing Like u said...maybe i shud said serious love..i realy cant acept if gt many bf around my gf...i hope she can understand the limit n try to avoid any closer relationship happen..if she cant thats mean tis is over coz there is non respect to each other,unaceptabe behaviour ruin tis lov
It's not really a "no no", but yea, i won't like that. If it really happens, i would really hope that my gf will try her best to make me feel better so that i know i am important in her heart. It's not that i want to lock her or stop her from having friends. As long as she "respect" me and the relationship as CK was saying, i will still be okay with it.
Haha, I hate this question Helen.... I guess it comes down to whether he was friends with them before we started dating, and whether he is open and honest with me... I won't say its a deal breaker, but it makes things tougher. Honestly though, I think a lot of it has to do with the personalities of the girls... if his friends are cool and nice, and obviously platonic, then hey, no problem... if the girls are sketchy... different story
For me i will definiTely feel jealous if i see my gf is surrounded with a lot of guys. i mean who will not? However i believe if she put her limit there, which is as long as she doesn't get too close to anyone of them, i'm ok with it. i cant ask her to keep clear of her friends just because of me. i think the best way would be i can get to know all those guys friend so that i can haf a insurance
I would also feel jealous because I don't want my girlfriend has that many male friends around her. you know, that's the reason a couples always have a affair about their friends =]
i can't accept. if my love... should know where the limit too... i believe in her, she believe in me too... if not we can't walk long way and together forever`~><~~
I'll definately be jealous in a way, but I still have to give her some space and after all I believe that she should know her limits and if she doesn't of course I'll be there to tell her that I won't feel comfortable about it.
Yup, mostly stated that they will jealous about it, and yet they trust on their loved ones in knowing the LIMIT... Well, this question is not that flexible...since the answers can either be YES or NO... Still, we know that guys and gals CAN be jealous too~~
Well..i think this question is kind of depend on one's personality. For some, they may be just think that as long as they know the guys' hearts have only them..They will not care the girls around those guys.
ReplyDeleteFor me, I CAN NOT accept that. I am the kind of person that will get jealous while my love one is around with lots of girls(friends)...especially when he treats them better than me. This will make me feel like what is my position to him that i am not even important than his other friends.
For me, If he really likes me, he will TRY HIS BEST to avoid having all these girls(friends) around him..He should be able to understand my feeling...
I do not mean to restrict him for having girls(friends), but i think he should know where the LIMIT is...
Still, it is really important that IF HE IS ABLE TO PROVIDE THE 'SECURE' FOR ME... :)
u are right base on ur statement...coz true love alwys does the thing Like u said...maybe i shud said serious love..i realy cant acept if gt many bf around my gf...i hope she can understand the limit n try to avoid any closer relationship happen..if she cant thats mean tis is over coz there is non respect to each other,unaceptabe behaviour ruin tis lov
ReplyDeleteIt's not really a "no no", but yea, i won't like that. If it really happens, i would really hope that my gf will try her best to make me feel better so that i know i am important in her heart. It's not that i want to lock her or stop her from having friends. As long as she "respect" me and the relationship as CK was saying, i will still be okay with it.
ReplyDeleteHaha, I hate this question Helen.... I guess it comes down to whether he was friends with them before we started dating, and whether he is open and honest with me... I won't say its a deal breaker, but it makes things tougher. Honestly though, I think a lot of it has to do with the personalities of the girls... if his friends are cool and nice, and obviously platonic, then hey, no problem... if the girls are sketchy... different story
ReplyDeletewell,for me i'll hope that my girl will trying to avoid it too as we knw tht jealous nt jz for girl but guy too...eventhough there are best fren
ReplyDeleteFor me i will definiTely feel jealous if i see my gf is surrounded with a lot of guys. i mean who will not? However i believe if she put her limit there, which is as long as she doesn't get too close to anyone of them, i'm ok with it. i cant ask her to keep clear of her friends just because of me. i think the best way would be i can get to know all those guys friend so that i can haf a insurance
ReplyDeleteI would also feel jealous because I don't want my girlfriend has that many male friends around her. you know, that's the reason a couples always have a affair about their friends =]
ReplyDeleteya... if that is one group is no problem la.. if that is just a guy... then that cannot be accepted oh...
ReplyDeletei can't accept.
ReplyDeleteif my love...
should know where the limit too...
i believe in her,
she believe in me too...
if not we can't walk long way and together forever`~><~~
I'll definately be jealous in a way, but I still have to give her some space and after all I believe that she should know her limits and if she doesn't of course I'll be there to tell her that I won't feel comfortable about it.
ReplyDeleteno..i can't...
ReplyDeletejealousy is tiring and suffering...
Haha all the comments sided for NO... How dare I say yes le? Haha to me, same as most of you guys saying... LIMIT!
ReplyDeleteYup, mostly stated that they will jealous about it, and yet they trust on their loved ones in knowing the LIMIT...
ReplyDeleteWell, this question is not that flexible...since the answers can either be YES or NO...
Still, we know that guys and gals CAN be jealous too~~
It's depending on who they are
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