This week question has only 2 possible answers...
Since we are now at adult age(mostly), we have to decide our future paths...
IF there are only 2 paths for your choice:
a Happy future BUT with average or might have some financial problem
OR
a above average/kind of luxury future BUT with less happiness
Which will be your choice?
WHY????
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i have 2 answer for this also.
ReplyDeleteprobably i will choose a kind of luxury future BUT with less happiness,for Previous me
i'll felt that money is more important than others because with money i can have everything i want.
Money, Career, the thing that i want n definitely happy also.
But since i meet 1 people, my answer chge b a HAPPY future BUT might have some financial problem.
what i would like to give to her is the happiness.She, make me chge.
i wish to have a happiness rahter than money because even though we get everything but sometime when the chance is gone,it's really gone..i nt hope feel any regret in future.
but, even im choosing this way,i dont know whether she will follow like me as well.
If we do really want bring a happines n vout financial problem, we ave to pt more effort n get support frm the one we care.
what will u choose then?
onli 1 coment out?sincerely ur new question quite HArd for me....coz i need money oso need happy
ReplyDeleteSorry, have been quite busy + lazy for my own comment =p
ReplyDeleteYea, it is a tough question =.=''
It is the question that i have kept thinking about since 4 years ago...
and yet, i havent figured out a CLEAR answer for myself...
Just as what everyone wants, I want Happiness and Future too...
But,things do not come out just the way we want it to be...
Seem to me that, there is the 2 choices that I have...
My MIND tells me that Future should be much important than Happiness in some points...
Like with the money you have, you can travel around the world to have fun and meet the ones you want to, you can give them some money,get a maid for them..blah blah blah..seem like LOTS you can do with money..for you and for those you loved...JUST NOT THAT HAPPINESS...well,at least i think i will feel happy when them all are happy,and i can take care of them...
of course, if i can meet someone who can give me the addition happiness...
My HEART tells me that i hope for happiness...Life is unpredictable...who knows when you will leave this world...I will be regret if i didnt get the happiness i want...Even though we are not rich, as long as we all are together, we have at least 3 meals a day, have some money to save for our children...we should be happy...
But, I will not have enough money to travel around, taking care of others...
MIND and HEART are telling me opposite ideas...which bother me for 4 years++...
Yet, seem like I have to make my choice this year...
Happiness or Money...???
one word: unknown
happy but gt financial problem..
ReplyDeletecoz i saw many cases.. they got lot of money but didnt happy...
if we live unhappy.. so why we live in this world?? haha...
1.精神上的生活
ReplyDelete2.物质上的生活
my answer is (1)
为什么呢？
觉得这样比较适合我的个性...觉得自己不会去做自己不喜欢的东西...
也许赚的钱比较少...也许生活没什么特别...也许不能给到家人特别好的生活，去旅行啊等等。
但我们的亲情很宝贵，一家人相处的很开心！很温馨！相亲相爱！也许给父母的零用钱不是很多！
（虽然不是很有钱）
因为不是很有钱，也许不能给后代读很好的学校，也许不能让他们有很色彩的童年，也许...不是这样的美好！也许...不是那样的美好！
但这些都不是重点！！
这是我一个身边朋友的故事：
她有四个小孩，而丈夫全职照顾小孩(因为还小)...（可能太太赚钱多,所以丈夫负责照顾小孩)她想过要把其中一个小孩送给人家，因为真的负担不起！但先生说，“虽然我们不能给到他们很好的生活！但至少我们要给小孩有个温馨的家！要让他们健康的成长！这是我们的责任！”
是不是我们需要重新思考所谓“幸福”的定义呢？
如果我们给家里人很多钱，给孩子过好的生活，衣，食，住，行...样样都照顾得很好！
这样他们就会幸福吗？
也不定..可能会让他们太依赖！让他们没有了适应社会的能力！让他们在很舒服的环境长大，反而会害了他们！
在我们的生活里...
我们可以看到一些被磨练过的人，往往都能独担一面，或者不用太依赖人等等！这是好事！因为离开了父母的保护网后，一切都要靠自己！
“人生无常”
当一天的结束，有谁可以肯定的说一定可以看到明天的太阳?
相对的，像刚才所说的那家人，是很穷困！很可怜！
可以说他们不幸福吗？
也不行吧！因为他们有尽自己的责任去做好自己该做的事情！让孩子有书读，三餐温饱！
其实我们都是有钱，只是不比有钱人那么有钱而已！
哈哈...
也许我们不能环游世界，但我们能和家人一年出国一次，走走！看看！
这也是不错个好方法！哈哈。。。
其实不必太执着钱的重要性！
只要我们做好自己的本份就好，做儿女就该孝顺父母，出来社会后要好好的工作！如有能力的话每月都该寄点钱给父母！这是本分，然后自己也要好好的规划定期存款，以防万一！
未来我们也不用担心太多，只要我们...
“把握现在，就能创造未来”
如果真的办不到，至少我们努力过！奋斗过！
我们这一生也没什么遗憾了...
再来如果要有个幸福的家庭，就该要有个愿意
互相配合，互相尊重
互相关怀，互相切磋。。。的好伴侣！
这样幸福的家庭就不是个空想的目标！
所以。。。我觉得
“幸福和快乐不是来自于物质上的享受，而是来自于心灵上的感受”
I will I will Choose 2!!! simple, luxury life with less happiness bt still means living in happiness!! somemore with money u can make unhappiness into happiness!!
ReplyDeleteHowever a happy life with ave or maybe soMe financial problem....this ans is actually veri ambiguous... having a financial problem definitely more or less will result a slight unhappiness de.. this one i believe it's a veri veri common to everyone....
Personally i tink gd finance situation is veri impt to build up ur happiness....Sometime without money, u might feel inferior to fight for ur happiness!! everything revolve around money....
I really hope that i can figure out a way to work for a path of having both money and happiness...
ReplyDeleteerm..
ReplyDeletei would like to choose happy..
因为钱不是万能的，钱买不到人生中真正的快乐。
家庭，健康，亲情和友情都是不能用金钱来换取的。。
有了快乐，自然就会有财富，快乐等于财富但财富并不等于快乐。
hon..
好一句‘快乐就会有财富’
ReplyDeleteRICH so WAT?!
ReplyDeletebuy a lot of brand cloths,cars...
got a lot of womens,frens around u..
but...they rely love u??
they rely treat u as a fren or live atm..?
空虚的快乐~~颓废的人生~~
i rather hv a partner who rely love me..
enough money to support our demand..
enough...for me..rely enough...
-ellen-
Inner Heart vs Reality...
ReplyDeleteChallenging question...