IF you and your very very very best friend simultaneously fall into a same guy or gal, what will you do??? Will you give up your feeling??? Will you compete with your very best friend??? Or else???
I remember I chatted this question with my jimui as a joke... The answer we agreed that time was:"we will both give up the guy. We choose our best jimui relationship rather than love. We even said that we will marry each other along with my honey." LOL... Still, I like this answer...
YET, will our decision/answer change if we really encounter that situation??? Not sure... But, what I am sure is I will tell my very best friend that I fall to the same guy with her... If she really is the best friend of mine, she will be willing to tell me her thought...and we will talk about it... Probably we will say:"let everything be natural" and we will keep as friend with the guy and let the guy chooses... well, maybe he does not like both of us =p) Of course we will respect the guy decision and still keep the relationship... (Hope things can be this easy)
YET, if the guy is already my best friend's boyfriend. The only choice is I will give up the feeling.
The point is I will try my best to maintain the relationship between my best friend and I, and yet hope can get the love too... Still, if to choose only one... of course, my best friend will come first :)
hmm..for my opinion ar... we will compete and wont give up to chase for the girl we like. as everyone know guy alw like to compete.. however,no matter both of us who get the love, still we are best friends... ^^
ermm, i think i wil compete wif my fren.. for me, we need to find our happinesss by ourselves, not waiting other ppl to give us.. anyways, if the person who i like do not choose me, at least i will not feel any regret and guilty, since i d did my best for it..
Sweetheart... Have I told you before that... I LIKED someone??? (cannot mention WHO at here) At that time, I kept on telling myself that he did not like me, and I better stayed as his friend... I knew I LIKED him but at the same time I 'controled' my feeling from falling deepen... Of course, it is much easier to 'control' for LIKE... (Love is blind...Like has not yet) For 'Love', I think it is much much much more effort than that... That's why I will try to stay as LIKE and control until decision makes... so that I can know if I should move on or give up..
Sigh...Still...I hope there is someone that I can LOVE...
tat day ur honey tell me she will choose me rather than tat person wor....i feel bu hao yi shi...haahaaa..i like u oso but i seldom near wit u wor....if alwys wit u maybe will fall for u gua?haahaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa...u wAn meh....i so low cLAs
wei wei wei.. y say bout me?? nola, last time im juz kidding, dun put in heart.. wah, u so flower heart ar?? gt wife still love my honey, ask from me 1st..
hmm...if really both of us fall in love with the same guy..i think we can still be friend... but must make sure the guy is not playing around us... no matter the guy choose either one of us, we must face the fact..
I remember I chatted this question with my jimui as a joke...
ReplyDeleteThe answer we agreed that time was:"we will both give up the guy. We choose our best jimui relationship rather than love. We even said that we will marry each other along with my honey."
LOL...
Still, I like this answer...
YET, will our decision/answer change if we really encounter that situation???
Not sure...
But, what I am sure is I will tell my very best friend that I fall to the same guy with her...
If she really is the best friend of mine, she will be willing to tell me her thought...and we will talk about it...
Probably we will say:"let everything be natural" and we will keep as friend with the guy and let the guy chooses...
well, maybe he does not like both of us =p)
Of course we will respect the guy decision and still keep the relationship...
(Hope things can be this easy)
YET, if the guy is already my best friend's boyfriend. The only choice is I will give up the feeling.
The point is I will try my best to maintain the relationship between my best friend and I, and yet hope can get the love too...
Still, if to choose only one...
of course, my best friend will come first :)
Compete...NEVER dream of it!!!
hmm..for my opinion ar...
ReplyDeletewe will compete and wont give up to chase for the girl we like.
as everyone know guy alw like to compete..
however,no matter both of us who get the love,
still we are best friends...
^^
-ND-
友情比爱情更可贵～
ReplyDelete友谊万岁...
depends on how good me and that best friend, and also the deepnest of love i hav with that guy...
ReplyDeleteu'll made the decision at that time..
dun worry..
erm...i m same wit cherrieslov way...depends hw much i lov the gal...
ReplyDeleteermm,
ReplyDeletei think i wil compete wif my fren..
for me, we need to find our happinesss by ourselves, not waiting other ppl to give us..
anyways, if the person who i like do not choose me, at least i will not feel any regret and guilty, since i d did my best for it..
That's true...it is HARD to give up the deep love...that's why I will not let the feeling get deepen before making any decision...
ReplyDeletehaahaa...my sweetheart..can u control when it get deepen?u shud knw tat leh....
ReplyDeleteSweetheart...
ReplyDeleteHave I told you before that...
I LIKED someone???
(cannot mention WHO at here)
At that time, I kept on telling myself that he did not like me, and I better stayed as his friend...
I knew I LIKED him but at the same time I 'controled' my feeling from falling deepen...
Of course, it is much easier to 'control' for LIKE...
(Love is blind...Like has not yet)
For 'Love', I think it is much much much more effort than that...
That's why I will try to stay as LIKE and control until decision makes...
so that I can know if I should move on or give up..
Sigh...Still...I hope there is someone that I can LOVE...
like oso gt deep or nt deep wor...like b4 tat i oso like ur honey so deep...haahaa....
ReplyDeletewow...you like my honey ar...me leh me leh...you do not like your sweetheart ar?? LOL...
ReplyDeleteno wonder someone treated you as 'qing di' lar...
LOL
tat day ur honey tell me she will choose me rather than tat person wor....i feel bu hao yi shi...haahaaa..i like u oso but i seldom near wit u wor....if alwys wit u maybe will fall for u gua?haahaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa...u wAn meh....i so low cLAs
ReplyDeletewei wei wei..
ReplyDeletey say bout me??
nola, last time im juz kidding, dun put in heart..
wah, u so flower heart ar?? gt wife still love my honey, ask from me 1st..
hon..
Opps...Honey saw it liao...
ReplyDeleteFlower heart ar...fast go away...later my honey pok you ar...
kakakakakaka
i mean b4 i wit my wife nt now fall wit u...nw i very loyal leh dint go out wit other gal,everytime i go out wit my fren she oso will by my side lo..
ReplyDeletehmm...if really both of us fall in love with the same guy..i think we can still be friend...
ReplyDeletebut must make sure the guy is not playing around us...
no matter the guy choose either one of us, we must face the fact..
-yiwen-
hmm...frenship is important then love...
ReplyDeleten the..if i know ''the ppl'' like my fren...
i will gv up...and stay beside her/him as best fren...
-ellen-
I agree with yiwen... :)
ReplyDelete