I do not deny that I am quite a consevative person...
Before my ex, I was holding with this thought that I want my first time to be given to HIM that is MEANT to me for the rest of my life... SO, there would be no sex prior to marry...at that time...
However, my thought has changed... Still, not that open of course... Now, I MAY accept sex with my boyfriend even before we get married...
Why I said MAY?? because I have to make sure that he is meant to me at some points... In other words, I will make sure that I love him and that he loves me...in which we both will probably get married in the future...
not likely to have sex with my boyfriend that just has started few weeks and havent confirmed the feeling...
Another reason for MAY is... I hope I am ready for IT at that TIME =p
For guy definitely would like to try of course. this is mostly where all guy curious for this BUT doesn't mean after SEX they ll leaving their partner.
For some people they might play play around.
If my partner is willing to give then i'll b more happy^^
If she not willing to give then meant she is no ready yet and even i force there will become more worst and influence the relationship between us.
halo~~~21century d..who care so much... even when the earth will explode.. we dun know.. but if u wan to use SEX tight hold ur darling's heart...better DUN DO IT...
I do agree that sex is not a promise... I think sex is a passage/stage... It can put a couple to the next stage, which is closer together than before (if their relationship is serious) Yet, it one of them is just playing, sex will only bring downslop for the relationship...
So, OPEN the EYE on your HEART... dont SEE with your BARE EYEs... Dont have sex with a nobody...
Well, unless... you like to have sex... That's a different story =p
sex...is a touch way....to expres hw ur lov to tat person..i did haV sex b4 i date wit my curent gf...cant explain y...jz kind of intension...so sudenly..after the sex i realise i fall in lov wit her..so i do acept sex b4 mariage
That's true as well... That 'feeling' just suddenly appears... someone told me that... Still, whether the Feeling comes or not, Please... respect your other half... she/he might not feel the same way...
ya, 21century d.. who will care bout it? you are Virgins or not, not important at all, depend on the feeling only.. but sometimes also need to control urself lah, not gt feeling then juz do it.. later gt baby how?? bcoz of the baby then married, after tat separated, regret the end the baby like rubbsih throw here throw there.. sigh..
i will respect my girlfriend. if she no ready yet... can't force her. love ur lover and respect her. if make sure will married with her in future...than just do it 1 coz i think sex can make couple more close before. most important is... love her more than sex. love is forever.
From my point of view. why not wait til marriage? for security reason, even if u don give ur gf/bf ur body, they will still love u. For SOME, after u give, they will bring it down. conclusion.. it is better to let ur lover wait til the marriage :)
True Love Waits
And girls/guys(some)
if ur partner said," If u love me, u will do it with me" My answer for u is, ditch them. They only want ur body not ur love. no offense but its true. Because pls believe u are 2 precious to be give out to idiotic fallers, they are not worth :)
I do not deny that I am quite a consevative person...
ReplyDeleteBefore my ex,
I was holding with this thought that I want my first time to be given to HIM that is MEANT to me for the rest of my life...
SO, there would be no sex prior to marry...at that time...
However,
my thought has changed...
Still, not that open of course...
Now, I MAY accept sex with my boyfriend even before we get married...
Why I said MAY??
because I have to make sure that he is meant to me at some points...
In other words, I will make sure that I love him and that he loves me...in which we both will probably get married in the future...
not likely to have sex with my boyfriend that just has started few weeks and havent confirmed the feeling...
Another reason for MAY is...
I hope I am ready for IT at that TIME =p
For guy definitely would like to try of course.
ReplyDeletethis is mostly where all guy curious for this BUT doesn't mean after SEX they ll leaving their partner.
For some people they might play play around.
If my partner is willing to give then i'll b more happy^^
If she not willing to give then meant she is no ready yet and even i force there will become more worst and influence the relationship between us.
So i will respect her decision.
-ND-
sure la...so desperate ma
ReplyDeletehaha!!
tkx
i hope not! but i failed to do it ~
ReplyDeleteis a regret! so dont..
dont have SEX for prior marriage ...
there's nothing so call promise...
-yiwen-
halo~~~21century d..who care so much...
ReplyDeleteeven when the earth will explode..
we dun know..
but if u wan to use SEX tight hold ur darling's heart...better DUN DO IT...
-ellen-
I do agree that sex is not a promise...
ReplyDeleteI think sex is a passage/stage...
It can put a couple to the next stage, which is closer together than before (if their relationship is serious)
Yet, it one of them is just playing, sex will only bring downslop for the relationship...
So, OPEN the EYE on your HEART...
dont SEE with your BARE EYEs...
Dont have sex with a nobody...
Well, unless...
you like to have sex...
That's a different story =p
Yeah, 21st century,
ReplyDeleteVirgins are less and less nowaday...
Still, there are some 'traditional' guys out there... =p
That right..That's why girls should keep their 1st for their lover n not simply give to the others even now is 21 century
ReplyDeleteND
WRONG, ND, WRONG...
ReplyDeleteAre you being gender stereotype???
Why should girls keep their 1st for guys...??
Guys no need ar???
cheh
sex...is a touch way....to expres hw ur lov to tat person..i did haV sex b4 i date wit my curent gf...cant explain y...jz kind of intension...so sudenly..after the sex i realise i fall in lov wit her..so i do acept sex b4 mariage
ReplyDeleteThat's true as well...
ReplyDeleteThat 'feeling' just suddenly appears...
someone told me that...
Still, whether the Feeling comes or not, Please...
respect your other half...
she/he might not feel the same way...
If both 'agree', then...
SEX lar...
ya, 21century d.. who will care bout it?
ReplyDeleteyou are Virgins or not, not important at all, depend on the feeling only..
but sometimes also need to control urself lah, not gt feeling then juz do it.. later gt baby how?? bcoz of the baby then married, after tat separated, regret the end the baby like rubbsih throw here throw there.. sigh..
542~~
i will respect my girlfriend.
ReplyDeleteif she no ready yet...
can't force her.
love ur lover and respect her.
if make sure will married with her in future...than just do it
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coz i think sex can make couple more close before.
most important is...
love her more than sex.
love is forever.
Nah..sex can make a couple be closer...
ReplyDeleteby at the same time, sex can apart a couple...
depend on the "game"...
depend on the game...
ReplyDeleteyup u also right!
but game not the point!
finally player most important than game.
pls see player true face before start game!!!
From my point of view. why not wait til marriage? for security reason, even if u don give ur gf/bf ur body, they will still love u. For SOME, after u give, they will bring it down. conclusion.. it is better to let ur lover wait til the marriage :)
ReplyDeleteTrue Love Waits
And girls/guys(some)
if ur partner said," If u love me, u will do it with me" My answer for u is, ditch them. They only want ur body not ur love. no offense but its true. Because pls believe u are 2 precious to be give out to idiotic fallers, they are not worth :)
cheers!